Back a couple of years ago I watched some people I cared about have a stupid argument over seats at a wedding. It was because someone felt that they were seated in the wrong place, while others were put where that person felt they should have been in relation to the wedding. The people that were a part of the altercation didn't talk to each other at the wedding, because they had begun to resent each other.
Thatb issue started when I was fourteen, since then the parties involvedhave not said anything to each other, even though the instigator has tried to apologize for the actions that lead to the seperation in the first place.
I feel as though no one has ever had the upper hand in an argument, because I feel as those all arguments lead to anger, jealousy, and some sort of divition, allbeit teperary, or perminant in the form of seperation. Yes there are debates, but in an argument a person could become heated, because a person could feel as though their beliefs, or morals are being challanged and become defensive.
That's exactly what happened at the wedding, the group of people who got the better seating ignored the person that wanted to sit with them making the person involved resent the other party, and send mean letters in return,
In those four years the parties involved had not spoken once at all.
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